I realize everyone here has their own unique time-schedule, but has anyone ever tried to hold a planned event for everyone to participate in? Speaking from a gamer's standpoint; in my clan, we will frequently hold practices for the various games we play. It's just a chance to get as many people together as we can, to hop onto a server, and have some fun. If we could find a set time every week for a majority of players (and a few staffers) to come together, we could have events ranging from simply sitting around and talking about various ideas for the game, to a large group-rp (doesn't have to be a quest), or maybe a "newb night."
It's probably been thought up, but if I had a time written on my calendar as a dedicated "DL Night," I'd sure as heck show up!

Dref